The Single Man Auser's Guide ; How Soon Should You Text Him After a First Date? Can You Be Sure He Wants to See You Again? Should You Poke Him On Facebook? Author and Dating Guru Humfrey Hunter Offers His Unique Insight Into What Makes Men Tick - and What Winds Them Up

Mail on Sunday › April 10, 2011

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As break-ups go, mine wasn't dramatic: after three fairly happy years with my girlfriend, I'd realised that she wasn't the one, so the relationship ended. I was 30, and in eight years had been single for a total of six months.

The next day my friend Giles ordered me not to get a girlfriend for the next year, because I was too soft and fell in love too easily. If I wasn't careful, I'd end up with one before I was ready, thus laying the foundations for yet another painful break-up. What I needed, said Giles, was to meet plenty of new girls before getting involved with one. With his advice in mind, dating began to feel very different; I started to analyse it in a way I never had before.

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The Single Man Auser's Guide ; How Soon Should You Text Him After a First Date? Can You Be Sure He Wants to See You Again? Should You Poke Him On Facebook? Author and Dating Guru Humfrey Hunter Offers His Unique Insight Into What Makes Men Tick - and What Winds Them Up

Then, in an outrageous stroke of luck, I was asked to write a newspaper dating column, which gave me the opportunity to poke my nose into other people's romantic business. Over two years of writing it I heard stories of dates of all shapes and sizes. Some made me laugh and some made me blush, while others left me speechless.

Two years on, just when I'd given up on the idea of meeti...

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